THE TIME TO KNOW YOU HAVE TO LET GO OFF THE RELATIONSHIP

New relationships are easy to cope
with and don’t require much effort to
listen, understand and be happy.
When most people enter into it they
just become stacked and unable to
express what they really want to put
across. We again confuse ourselves
with the fact that things are going to be better in the course of time but
believe me, if you aren’t getting all the essential or basic things a
relationship should provide, then I think it’s time to let it go. Its time
for you to stop doing favors and move on with your life. Want the
signs? I’ve got them here. Read on
When your partner expects you to be someone you’re not. –
Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone
over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not.
Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to piece together a
shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where
someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space inside
yourself where YOU used to be. Never change for some or play the role
of someone your partner wants. Be yourself
You don’t know the last time you were happy in the
relationship. Happiness is key to the future of your relationship
and to your future as an individual. If you aren’t happy anymore,
then it’s time to let go. More importantly, you cannot pin your
happiness to another person; it has to come from you. Everyone
deserves to be happy, so if you spend more time dwelling on times
when you were happy or thinking of how you could be happy than
actually feeling happy, it’s time for something to change. Never
confuse yourself with the fact that in the near future, things will
change. Take notes of today and let the person go.
When your partner breaks your trust. – Love means giving
someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you
completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get
one of two results – a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either
way there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this
person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of
your life and make room for those who do. In the end you’ll discover
who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you. And trust
me; some people will totally surprise you.
The relationship becomes one-sided. Relationships are about
equality and no matter how nice it might be to give and feel needed, or
to receive and be looked after, a relationship should be about balance.
Each partner should give and receive as each person in the
relationship has needs. If it becomes one-sided, resentment builds
and can lead to problems. If it goes like the other person is trying to
do you a favor then please move on. If you are responsible for his
smile, same way he should be responsible for something. But if he
isn’t, don hesitate, just move on!
You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness. – If
you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life,
you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it. I would
rather suggest you don’t do it. Why can your partner be happy but
not you, if that’s the case, I think relationship should go solo rather
than a duet. If your partner is taking all the grace, the happiness
and everything that makes you happy, just advice yourself. It’s
always better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that
constantly requires you to sacrifice your happiness and self-respect

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